Here are some recent pics of us at the lake for Kurt's birthday and our first family camping trip. We went with another couple and their son. A reat time had by all. Lucy was a camping champion. Personally I think she could have a future as a "Camp Host". She loved roaming the campground looking for new friends;)
We've been busy this summer, going up north, pool, playdates, camping and car trips. Where does the time go? Every year I vow to slow it down and savor the moments. Sound familiar? Kinda like Christmas as well...
No new news to report. I have a feeling we'll be waiting for a referral until the end of 09 or early 10. In the meantime I've been preparing; buying new suitcases, small thank you gifts etc.
Just got word that other family that has been waiting since Feb got their referral last Thursday and are traveling as soon as THIS WEEKEND. I'm so excited I can hardly stand it!
We recently had some of my family in town for a visit so we headed back to the Ole homestead. My Grandpa owned it originally. My Mom moved in with my Dad and Grandpa after they were married and now my brother and sister in law are taking over the family tradition. The emotional impact of this visit really surprised me. I've been back home many times since my parents died but having LC there with all of her cousins really brought me back to some very fond memories. I remember doing very much the same things with my cousins growing up. All the playing, feeding the lambs, seeing all of them together was like watching a home movie of my childhood. I even have a picture of myself somewhere standing in the same spot as LC by the barn holding a kitty. Makes me nostalgic... Good times...
I also finally have an adoption update!
We're one of two families with documents in front of the adoption committee at los Pisingos!!!!! We're officially waiting! YES! The other family has been waiting for a referral since Feb 09. But since LP does try to match families, they don't necessarily go in order. We could go before or after them.
So this great news! Our dossier was submitted in May 09. We filled out our application for LP back in Oct 08. Got the go ahead to start compiling our documents for our dossier in Dec 08 I believe. It's been a long road but not as long as some families. And we have LC of course which makes the waiting go by faster.
Just think...our next little one could already be "in the making" or on this planet already...Gives me goosebumps and tears all at the same time! Please remember our next birth family in your prayers. They have a very difficult and heart wrenching decision before them.
I know. I know. I've become THAT Mom. I bought tickets to take Lucy to see Dora Live! But I just couldn't resist. She LOVE LOVE LOVES Dora. We started off by seeing Dora at the Mall of America. As you can tell by the picture, she was a tad excited. She told me, "I wanna hug Dora." "I wanna kiss Dora." Not exactly the shy type;)
Grammy and Bumpa came with us to see the actual show "Dora Live!" She of course had a wonderful time. It was so much fun for us adults to see Lucy's reactions as she watched the show.
We've also had Lucy's cousins over for a sleep over this month. They have a great time playing the sandbox, going to the park, coloring with sidewalk chalk! Hence the need for a bath for all three of them.
Today we went to the Sculpture Garden with my friend Ursula and her children Joey (Josephine) and Zak. They had a terrific day together. The pictures speak for themselves.
We had a great Easter. We went to church and then out to Bumpa and Grammy's house to hunt for eggs and eat lots of candy. Grammy made us a wonderful meal. It was a great day to relax with family. Kurt and I got to relax anyway. Bumpa on the other hand was run ragged by his biggest fan...LUCY! I know, big surprise.
I got an update from our SW. Evidently is not before the committee at LP yet anyway. So...we're not officially waiting yet. SOON we hope!
It's been fun family time tooling around the neighborhood recently with our new bikes and burley. Lucy is digging the ride. She keeps saying "Go! Go! Go!"
Hope everyone is enjoying this wonderful Spring weather Smooch PK
I know, it's been WAAAYYY too long since I've updated our site. My apologies. I'm going to blame my recent CRACKBOOK, I mean Facebook addition.
As you can tell by the name of this post, Lucy slept all night in her big girl bed last night. I only had to put her back in bed 3x. I thought that was pretty good for her first time. There's no going back now! Her afternoon nap has been pretty sporadic lately. She's only 2 1/2 so I'm hoping that she hasn't given up on it yet. The dark circles under her eyes are a dead give away that she still needs one, not to mention that cranky attitude of hers;)
Lucy is getting so big! I'm continually amazed at her verbal and motor skills. She's like a little sponge. Favorite sayings at the moment are, "Niicce" (courtesy of Kurt) "What you doing?" and "I no want to." Transitions continue to be tough. This girl never wants the party to stop. Kinda like Mom???? At least I don't arch my back, scream and throw myself to the ground every time...well not EVERY time...we have to stop the favorite activity of the moment to move on to something different. Lucy got more stitches in the SAME eyebrow again. We were in church for all of 15 minutes when she wanted to take a stroll up the center aisle to say hello to Pastor Anne. When I tried to stop her, (picture said back arching etc above) she flung herself into the corner of the wooden pew. 3 stitches later...What a way to avoid church! At least Kurt was home this time. For those of you that don't know, Lucy has had a total of 3 ER visits in her brief time on the planet thus far, two of which Kurt was traveling. It figures doesn't it?
The Colombia program has picked up again. We've moved up the list considerably and hope to have a referral sometime this spring. Fingers crossed! And please keep us and our next birth family in your prayers guys. We've requested a child of either gender, younger than Lucy. I'm nesting right now BIG TIME. Just trying to get the house ready for our #2. It keeps me busy during the wait. I overhauled the storage room, donated and threw out a bunch of stuff. The OCD in me feels goooood right about now. Lucy is now in our old guest room (don't worry guys. We still have a comfy new futon in the basement.) We'll keep the nursery the same for the new baby. I wanted to have Lucy all settled into her new room to help ease the transition of a new brother or sister. She's in for a wake up call:0 Now if we can only get her potty trained! I'm keeping my fingers crossed that this will be handled before we get "the call." I really don't want to buy diapers for 2 while we're in Colombia for 4+ weeks!
Well..onto the pictures...it's what you've all wanted to see anyway right?
This is what I heard the other morning coming from Lucy's crib at 530AM. She kept saying it over and over again. "I wanna puppy." "I wanna puppy." Pretty funny. Luckily we haven't heard it since. We lost our dear Callie in September this year. I can't imagine having another dog just yet. Callie was such a big part of our lives for so long. The house seems empty without her. Not to mention I now have to sweep under Lucy's chair after every meal. That's just how Callie was, always one to lend a helping hand:)
There is much singing around our house these days. I sang Jingle Bells to Lucy just once and she later broke out the whole song! It sounded something like bum bum bum, bum bum bum, bum bum bum ba bum, bum bum bum ba bum bum badda bum ba bum ba bum HEY! Bingo and many other Spanish songs are big hits as well. Lucy prefers a solo singing career. Anytime Daddy or I try to sing a duet with her we get the big NOOOOOOO. You'd think we had terrible singing voices or something. She has a whole music collection in my car and doesn't hesitate to let us know when she wants a song skipped. "Next song please Momma." "Next song Papi."
Lucy is talking up a storm. She continues to amaze us with new English and Spanish words. And oh the joy of trying to figure out what the heck she is saying. Is it English? Is is Spanish? Spanglish anyone? Her latest is mamo! mamo! Complete with a tug on the arm(vamos: let's go!)
Kurt and I recently started talking to Lucy about going back to Colombia in preparation for our 2ND adoption. When I asked her if she wanted a little brother or sister, her response was "no tank you Momma, no tank you." Hey at least she's polite. She's also no dummy. Why would she want to give up being the absolute center of our universe? Boy is she in for a surprise!
LSS received FOUR referrals this past month! Our in-country coordinator Cecilia recently told our agency that the Colombian families that wanted to adopt have done so and that there is no longer a pool of waiting families )Colombian families have priority in the adoption process.) So this means that things will be picking up so to speak. Not as fast as with Lucy but not as slow as before. That is the ebb and flow of adoption. This leads to the question that I'm sure everyone is dying to know....When are we returning to Colombia???????? With those recent referrals, our SW finally gave us the thumbs up to start working on our Los Pisingos dossier!!!! HALLELUJAH!!!!!! Since these documents only stay good for 6 mos we're cautiously optimistic that Lucy will have a little brother or sister before she is 3(Sept 09).
So... we have a lot to be thankful for this Christmas. We're healthy and happy. Kurt is gainfully employed. I get to stay at home with Lucy. We have a roof over our heads. We are surrounded by loving family and friends. We are blessed.
WE ARE A FAMILY OF THREE NOW! I love saying that. We are a family. Sigh...We are a family.
God, please watch over Lucy's birth family and keep them safe. Please let them know that she is loved and that they are in our thoughts constantly. We are so utterly grateful for the beautiful gift which they have entrusted to us. Lord, we also ask you to put your arms around our next birth family. Comfort them and give them strength as they struggle with the very difficult decisions that are unfolding before them.
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