Lucy's birthday party

It occurred to me that I never posted anything pics from Lucy's 2nd birthday party. OOPS! We had it at a park since we were in the throws of a kitchen remodel. Lucy had a great time with all her friends. The piñata continues to be a big hit:)

I have a good feeling....

Good morning!

LSS has recommended that we dual list with ICBF (govt run orphange)and Los Pisingos (private)to cover all of our bases. So...we've just completed our dossier for ICBF and I sent of the copies for LSS to review for any changes. After they've been approved we can send them off to COLOMBIA!

I called our LSS rep yesterday with a few questions and I decided to be brave and ask where our LP application was in the pile. You may be wondering why I said brave... I feel like having too much info can be harmful. I know, weird but we don't have any control over the process anyway. Things could change on a dime so really what's the difference? It makes me too anxious. Anyway...She told me that right now LP has 3 dossiers in front of the referral committee. There is one more dossier "in cue" and we are one of the next 4 families to get their dossier ready to go! She actually had a call into the in-country coordinator to see if we should start compiling our documents when I called! So, we should get a phone call with an update soon. The dossier documents only stay valid in Colombia for 6 mos. LSS likes to hold off so our documents don't expire and we would have to update them all again. We know of MANY families that were caught up in this slow down that have had to update their dossiers 3 times so it can be a real bummer having to keep updating that thing without any movement and no referral!

We joke about being on "the list that doesn't exist" because the referral committee does try to match families with babies so referrals don't necessarily go in order.

I guess we can officially be "cautiously optimistic"???



P.S. There are 2 families that we've been following that are in Colombia right now and are caught up in a judges strike (I think over 40 days?). One of these families have been in country for TWELVE weeks. Please pray that these families get home PRONTO.

Thanks
Smooch
PK

adoption update...don't get too excited...

I guess I'm in a blogging mood lately as I think I've had 3 posts here recently:)

Our application for Los Pisingos (private orphanage) has now been in Colombia for one year. Sigh....or should I say our app is sitting on the desk of our in country rep waiting to be submitted to LP. We're still waiting for the go ahead to start on our dossier. Because our dossier documents are only valid for 6 mos, It makes sense to wait. I THINK I remember our SW saying that we were in the top 1/3 of that pile. LP only accepts 3 dossiers from LSS (our agency) at a time.

I'm in the throws of gathering paperwork for our dossier which will be submitted to ICBF immediately, immediately being we got the OK to do this in June and I decided to enjoy our summer instead. ICBF is the government run orphanage in Colombia. It is typically a much LONGER wait but hey, a person never knows right?

Since we have no idea how long the wait will be, we've decided to request a child younger than Lucy, not necessarily an infant per say. Hopefully that will move things along but who the heck knows. I did hear there is "a thought out there" that most Colombians who wanted to adopt have done so. Maybe that means that the program will pick up again for us gringos???? We have friends in Colombia right now adopting their son after a 2 year wait. I just read their blog and they said that 25 babies are now at LP. So....Keep us in your prayers for a referral soon!

I know, our family life is based on rumor and conjecture. But I've learned to take it with a grain of salt. I've accepted that I have no control over the process. It's frustrating at times but I wouldn't trade if for anything in the world. Sometimes it does make me mad as hell. But then I remember it's not about me. It's about us as a family, a Colombian family. We're committed to sticking this out. It's our life and we love it. We love Lucy so much it hurts. We miss Colombia and our friends there.

nuff said
PK

The great MN get together and Labor Day weekend

Kurt, Lucy, Jackie (a family friend) and I went to the state fair this year. Can I just say that I FLAT OUT LOVE THE FAIR! It brings back such fond memories of going with my Mom and Dad. My Dad being a farmer preferred to stay on Machinery Hill all day. That about killed me! But we also took in the 4-H building, ALL of the animal barns and not to mention all the yummy food. I hope Lucy will have those kind of warm memories that I had as a kid going to the fair. And...what doesn't taste good fried in oil on a stick? I'm just saying...

We were also up at the lake with ALL of Kurt's family for Labor Day. We had a fantastic time. I think it's the first time since the cabin's been built that we were all there as a family. It was SO nice to be together enjoying the new place.

Smooch
PK